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Monday, February 3, 2014

Dear daughters: creating a Thoughtful Room

 

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Dear Daughters,

I know you know what the three things are that a thoughtful room has, but isn’t that the wonder of mother-adult daughter conversation?

I know you know , but just because I like to talk about things over and over again doesn’t mean I think you don’t know.

Mercy.

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Imagine if you will that these three things are as important as the design triangle needed in a good working kitchen. 

Now imagine three things that fly under the radar but create a quiet sense of comfort and thoughtfulness.


They are inconspicuous yet important.

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In fact, I am enjoying these three things as I sit here writing this.

What are they?


1.a comfortable place to sit

2.an end table with a coaster by that place to sit

3.a lamp on that end table


Do not hold your guests hostage under an overhead light- squinting is never a good look. Lamp light is critical to comfortable seating.

Do not ask them to hold their drink (that you offered them- with a napkin- and yes…I know you know about the napkin).

Do not cause them to worry about where to place said weeping glass.


Don’t you just love these Dear Daughter letters? 

I love you, but I know you know that too.

Mom

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Linking to:

Blue and White Bash at the Pink Pagoda

Amaze Me Monday @ Dwellings

Masterpiece Monday @ Boogieboard Cottage

Make It Pretty Monday @ The Dedicated House

Tuesday Treasure @ My Uncommon Slice of Suburbia

The Scoop @ Cedar Hill Ranch

Inspire Me Tuesday @ A Stroll Thru Life

21 comments:

  1. A comfortable place to sit is so important and the lamp part, too. I am in need of a lamp for one of my perching spots. It MUST have a bird lampshade and I keep forgetting to pick that up at Target!

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  2. Oh, I love that room and your decor is just delightful! I know that lamp light is one of my must haves, each and every room too. Miss Laura, what great letters you write to your sweeet daughters, they are just so special!
    Love you, dear friend~
    Nancy

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  3. Such wisdom! I read an article lately that said a guest may not remember what your home looked like but they will remember if they had a place to sit their drink without worrying. I think it's probably true.

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  4. Hi, I'm new to your blog. I found you through the Pink Pagoda. I love the title of your blog. I am in a 'paint it white' phase. Love this room, and that huge ginger jar.

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  5. Beautiful room, and could not agree more!

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  6. Yep.. those three are a must....great info for your daughters.... these posts will be cherished I am sure.. Have a great day.. Blessings!

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  7. Yep.. those three are a must....great info for your daughters.... these posts will be cherished I am sure.. Have a great day.. Blessings!

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  8. Oh yes, the coaster...very important for family members too! ;) Beautiful room!

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  9. I love the room, it is so pretty and inviting, love those velvet pillows they are so lux...I do need that lamp for my living room which I am doing in all blue white and beige for the summer...yummy thanks for all the inspiration

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  10. I do love your Dear Daughter post...reminds me of the importance of sharing our "wisdom"!

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  11. I love these post. So perfect. Thanks tons for linking to Inspire Me. Hugs, Marty

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  12. Love your three tips, but of course there is a fourth...every room needs a little blue and white. :) Beautiful space!

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  13. Great things to remember as we invite our guests into our homes:) I seldom turn my overhead light on, just lamps:) Enjoy your day dear Laura, HUGS!

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  14. Beautiful room! Sweet post and so true...
    Blessings,
    Cindy

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  15. Good advice..I hate overhead lights..Only in the kitchen..

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  16. I think your dear daughters are very lucky girls!

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  17. I think the most important way to make a room a beautiful is to fill it with people you love. But your design advice is excellent, too. :o)

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  18. Hi Laura, Thanks for visiting today! Your home is lovely and I like you do and don't list here :) Beautiful room and I collect the blue and white pieces .. they look gorgeous anywhere! leslie

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  19. You write the best little notes, Laura. Lucky daughters to be the recipients, and lucky us to look over your shoulder as you write.

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