While driving back from my nephew’s basketball game, I mentioned that I needed to shell the pecans from our yard and from my father’s pecan grove for our Thanksgiving pecan pies.
My Father: “Really, how many do you need?”
Me: “Oh, about two cups.”
Exactly two cups of shelled pecans appeared at my house yesterday.
Since my mother always took care of the gift giving for them, after she died, I learned about his special gift giving.
To name a few:
* I came home from a trip to find a raised bed (with tomatoes planted in it) in my backyard.
*He replaced the roof on our little house with red tin.
*He dropped off an avocado tree and two fig trees.
*He built a fence across our backyard.
*He stops by occasionally to say, “You want to go to Luby’s?”
*He never interferes, except to say “You don’t have any business…( fill in the blank)”. And he is always right.
Tomorrow on Thanksgiving, he will come early, but he never stays late. In fact, shortly after lunch, he will probably say,
“Sure was good” and “I better go get my shot” (he is diabetic), and then he will leave (he lives down the street).
I am so thankful for my father. I am proud to be his daughter, and I am happy to prepare:
Turkey
Cornbread Dressing (my mother’s recipe)
Giblet Gravy
Fruit Salad
Sparkle Salad
Mashed Potatoes
Sweet Potatoes
Green Bean Bundles
Acorn Squash
Sister Schubert Rolls
Pecan Pie
Flat Apple Pie
Coconut Cream Pie (for my husband)
25 comments:
You father sounds so kind and loving. What a gift to have him.
Enjoy your yummy Thanksgiving.
This post really touched my heart Laura. Of all of my siblings, I have always been the one closest to my father. I cherish him so much. Happy Thanksgiving Laura!
Kim
Laura, how wonderful you still have your daddy, and that he is so close by. How precious he is. Everything sounds so delicious, and oh, that coconut cream pie is my favorite!
Have a wonderful day!
Debra
Laura..
enjoy your father..especially his thoughtful and touching gifts! cherish those moment, minutes and hours with him and PLEASE photograph him!.. time passes ever too quickly..and one day, your father will no longer be down the street..
My dad passed away on father's day 15 years ago.. seems like just yesterday....and being a daddy's girl..I miss him so much!
have a blessed Thanksgiving holiday!
Loui♥
Your father is a blessing indeed. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
What a sweet post Laura! Happy turkey day to you and your family. :-)
Laura~~
First off, I never knew where pecans were grown. Blogging can be a wonderful historical/geographical/horticultural adventure. Now send some over!!
I nearly cried reading your LONG list of wonderful things your father does for & with you. After my mother died I was amazed at the things I found out about my father (she was the matriarch and dominating figure in our lives and I miss her incredibly). Left to his own devices, He seemed to take on a whole different personality, or I just never looked close enough.
My mom was in charge of the gift giving as well. Despite his grief, when Christmas arrived 2 months after my mom passed, he had 21 vintage Christmas cards made out for each of his grandchildren with a monetary gift enclosed. That was one of the first new and marvelous traits I learned about this quiet, gentle man. Now I am really crying! We are SO on the same page sometimes, Laura.
Have a blessed Thanksgiving and give your Dad a hug from me.
xoxo
Jane
P.S. Your menu sounds so delicious...
What a wonderful guy your dad is,you are a lucky girl! I have a great dad too, so I guess we are both lucky! Happy Thanksgiving, the menu looks yummy! sue
You have a precious father. You are a lucky daughter to have such a loving family. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.
Your dad sounds like a true gift. My dad has always been this way too. I hope you and your family have a wonderful Thanksgiving.
Blessings,
Marcia
What a nice post about your Father! Menu sounds good. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!
Bless his heart! What a dear guy. Happy Thanksgiving wishes to you and your family!
njoy your father..especially his thoughtful and touching gifts!
Work from home India
You are truly blessed to have your dad. By the way, what is Sparkle salad? Everything else I recognized.
Wow! What a wonderful man your Dad is -- he sounds very special indeed -- you'll have to give him an extra hug from all the blogging friends you have -- because we think he's special too! We might need to know about that Sparkle salad... at our house, we're fixing -- two turkey breasts, dressing, gravy, country ham and city (sweet) ham, rolls, mashed potatoes, green bean casserole, marinated tomatos, fruit salad, cranberry sauce, relish tray, sweet potato pie, rum cake, spiced pumpkin pudding, iced tea, coffee and water.
What a nice tribute to your father; he sounds like a wonderful man. Enjoy every day you can with him.
A very happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.
Wishing you the best Thanksgiving ever!
Sweet post.
Lee
Precious! Sparkle salad sounds interesting...??
Have a fun turkey day!
What a sweet daddy you have. Happy Thanksgiving!
Laura, I just popped by and am so glad I did. Reading this really brought a tear to my eye. Your father sounds like such a wonderful man. I can remember my grandfather sitting at the kitchen table hand grating coconut for my grandmother to make homemade ambrosia. That was always part of Christmas and Thanksgiving at my parents' home.
What a sweet, sweet man your daddy is, and he obviously has a sweet, sweet daughter who appreciates him.
This is what thanksgiving is all about, and you said it in a nutshell (no pun intended).
Love to you and a wish for an exceptionally Happy Thanksgiving...
XO,
Sheila :-)
Beautifully written...
Happy Thanksgiving, Laura! May your family gather together with love.
Blessings to you~
Rebecca
How sweet! I could just give him a hug for being such a sweetie:) Happy Thanksgiving and enjoy your day!
Two cups of love from two hands that still hold your heart. Beautiful post Laura, truly beautiful!
Debbie
How sweet! Your dad sounds so much like mine. I used to resent my dad for never being able to "say" I love you to me, but over the last 10 years, he has shown me in more ways than I can count that he loves me more than words can say! His love language is "works"...doing things for others to show he cares...After all I think if someone says they love you but doesn't show it, it would be very difficult to believe. You are blessed to have such a great daddy! :) Enjoy him! Thank you for sharing your story with us!
Btw, just found your blog today and I love it!!
I'm so glad I read this while browsing your older posts. The kind of mother I want to be too!
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